This week I’ve had a bit of extra time to think about how exceptional you are, and it became clear that for this, your 35th birthday, the celebration and sentiment just simply would not fit into a card. You’re too extraordinary, and you deserve an extraordinary birthday, this and every year.

So here are a small selection of the things that I love about you, on the occasion of your 35th birthday.

Even from the very beginning, I’ve known this was something special.

I love getting to discover and explore new places with you…

…and seeing you get to know and love the places that I’ve found meaningful.

I love how much you love your family, my family. Our family.

And how much they love you.

I love how you always hold my hand.

And how you show up for your people.

And while we may not be able to celebrate with all your people tonight, you should know that they’re thinking of you and sending you so much love.

You are the best dog dad…

…the hottest date

…and look damn good in a tux.

The light and joy you bring, and the excitement I have to get to build this life with you is beyond words.

I am so grateful for you, for this love, and for all we’re building. I love you so much.

Happy birthday, babe. You’re my favorite.